Rewild Your Desire
The best sex of your life isn't behind you. It's ahead of you.
Not faster. Not harder. Deeper.
Deeper pleasure. Deeper presence. Deeper connection.
Because what you've both been craving was never just sex.
It was each other.
Tantra for midlife singles and couples who are ready to feel more. Private 1:1 coaching, tailored completely to you.
Is this you?
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You've been together 20+ years and feel more like roommates than lovers.
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You crave a deeper connection, and you're not sure how to find your way back to it.
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You're divorced or single and want your next chapter to feel completely different.
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She's never quite been able to say what she wants. He's never quite known how to ask.
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Your body is changing, and sex feels like pressure instead of pleasure.
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You long to be truly seen. Not just touched. Seen.
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Or things are already good... and you can feel there's so much more.
If so, I hear you. I was you.
Forget the Sting Story
Tantra isn't seven-hour marathons, gymnastics or a religion.
It's an ancient practice of bringing presence to everything, including sex. You already accept that meditation can change your life. Tantra simply asks: what if sex could too?
Everything porn taught you is backwards. Faster isn't better. Harder isn't deeper. And the slower, more present way is exactly what the midlife body was made for.
Slow isn't a downgrade. It's the upgrade.
Tantra was never about how long. It's about how deep.
This isn't a course. It's you and me.
No cohort. No one-size-fits-all curriculum.
We work with your story. Your body. The conditioning that taught you sex was something to perform instead of feel.
Every session is built around you, so we heal what's actually in the way and create the deep connection you've been longing for.
You will feel:
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Present: out of your head and fully in your body.
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Seen: known and desired, past the roles, all the way through.
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Free: able to say what you want, and receive it.
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Alive: desire, sensation and pleasure back in your body.
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Deeply connected: to yourself, to your partner, and to something bigger.
We will cover topics such as:
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Creating deep connection, in and out of the bedroom.
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Releasing porn conditioning and performance pressure.
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Nervous system safety, so your body can soften and feel.
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Saying what you want, and truly hearing your partner.
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Breath and energy to turn pleasure into a full-body experience.
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Staying power, slower waves and full-body orgasms.
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Healing shame and loving your midlife body.
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Presence, surrender and polarity between lovers.
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Sex as meditation, and a conscious practice for life.
Every journey is tailored. These are the threads we may weave in, depending on what you need.
How it works...
Virtual. Fully clothed. Completely private.
I guide and teach. You practise privately, in your own home. Nothing intimate ever happens on camera.
Coaching sessions uncover the stories and patterns. Tantra sessions move that change through the body. Then we go one layer deeper.
Talk it through. Feel it through. Connect all the way through.
Signature Experiences
A taste of what we may explore together.
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Senses Reawakened: rediscovering each other through all five senses
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Full Body Bliss: pleasure that spreads, lasts and deepens
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The Rewilding: breath, sound and movement to free your wild self
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Rising Fire: lovemaking that's both erotic and deeply loving
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Sacred Union: sex as meditation, together
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The Three Questions: what do you want, what do you fear, what do you love about me
Mary Monaghan
VITA Certified Coach
PCC, MBA & B.Sc.Eng
For almost 8 years, and over 3,000 hours as a certified coach, I've had the honour of walking beside people as they come home to themselves. For years, I couldn't tell my husband what I wanted in the bedroom. Learning to say it changed everything. Now I help midlife singles and couples find that same freedom: to be seen, to say what's true, and to feel the deep connection they've always wanted.
Choose Your Path
10 weeks for singles or couples. 1:1, virtual, 75-min sessions. Go all the way to the core.
10,000 US dollars
Four weeks opens the door to deeper connection. Ten weeks walks you all the way through it.
100% Money Back Guarantee
Awaken and Rekindle: If you're not happy after your first 2 sessions together, I will return your payment.
Wild & Sacred: If you're not happy after your first 4 sessions together, I will return your payment.
Payment plans are always available. Simply inquire during the discovery call.